Written By Demesha K. Phillips
We all encounter unpleasant situations with others, and when someone hurts us, we often crave revenge. But what happens when their karma catches up with them without our involvement? Do we feel vindicated, or do we gloat about it? It's natural to feel relief and satisfaction when those who wronged us face consequences. If you've felt this way, remember: it's a human response. However, we shouldn't dwell on those feelings; we should let them pass.
Can we be honest for a moment? It feels good when someone who hurt you finally faces the consequences. Finally, the truth comes out, or they get their payback, or they get hurt. It feels good when someone who hurt you finally faces the consequences. Finally, the truth comes out, or they get their payback, or they get hurt. God isn't shocked that you feel that. He saw what they did to you. That little surge of "they got what was coming" doesn't make you evil. It makes you someone who was wounded and is now seeing justice. So don't shame yourself for the first reaction. That feeling makes you human.
The Bible speaks to what we do after that first feeling: "Do not gloat when your enemy falls; when they stumble, do not let your heart rejoice, or the Lord will see and disapprove and turn his wrath away from them, "Proverbs 24:17-18 NIV. God isn't saying "don't feel it." Therefore, the Lord is saying, "Don't live there."When we camp out in gloating, we tie our joy to someone else's pain, and that keeps us connected to the person who hurt us. God wants to free you from that, not because He doesn't care about justice, but because He cares about you more.
The high shouldn't last forever, and if you find it lasting a long time, you should pray about it. Their downfall doesn't heal what they did to you. It just gives you a short-lived rush of satisfaction, followed by the same hurt, plus guilt for feeling happy about it. And honestly? Becoming the person who celebrates pain, even deserved pain, can change you without you realizing it, so try not to live in that moment for long.
You don't have to fake being above it, though. You felt it, and it's okay. Here's what helps: Say to God, "Lord, I'm glad this happened, and I'm also still hurt. Help me." Do not fake holiness, accept the win, then refocus. Acknowledge, "Okay, that's done," and redirect to your life as it was. Forgiveness isn't saying what they did was okay. It's deciding you're done letting their offense run your emotions.
At the end of the day, it's okay that it felt good when they fell. That means what they did mattered, and you wanted justice. Proverbs 24:17 invites us not to build a home there. This is because the best healing isn't watching them fall. It's getting to a place where their rise or fall doesn't move you at all because your joy isn't built on their downfall, but on God.
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